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there was once a time in my semi-adult life when i felt so riddled with heartbreak that my blog only served the purpose of therapy.  these days i find social media exposure and my writing to be on a forced-filter so that i exercise caution when publishing.

recently on facebook i posted a tidbit that alluded to the bullying i endured in high school.  i was not alone in that ordeal and never did i believe myself to be a victim.   i was also more than surprised (and delighted) to receive several private messages from people whom i have not had direct contact with in ages - apologizing and letting me know they had no clue and had pegged me as an unlikely target.  now i feel compelled to elaborate.

maybe it was my mom's habit of keeping up appearances that allowed me to enable the bullying that went on.  the first few horrific months of high school were not a figment of my imagination. on a daily basis, she would push me in the halls, pull my hair when passing, and even press my face against the lockers.  she then recruited other tenth graders to torment me by doing the same and it continued for months.

but the story here is not what happened twenty years ago.  my story is the resilience gained.  there were countless others who survived the jungle just as i did.  i have never felt entitled to claim it as a my story alone because i feel lucky to have found a sense of sanity amongst what could have been far worse.  

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mimi from guam

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      *off-island* refers to the state of being away from the island of guam. you can now follow my spin-off food blog, off-is land influence food refelections

      from my lush homeland to the city by the bay and into the far reaches of the suburbs, i've made my home twice. it was fun in my 20's and even better in my 30's. documenting it all makes me feel important (to myself). here you'll find my multi-tasking adventures with food and the fashionable, my love affair with my dvr, an occasional moment of profound thought, a lot of useless yet laughable ranting, and lately stuff about my life in constant re-arrangement. i'm only fab-ulous because it's in my name.
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